Communities of disagreement

Coffee chat about what divides us

In collaboration with the Politiken Foundation, in the fall of 2020 we invited influential opinion makers to rethink the way we discuss the issues that divide us. We were visited by Minister of Culture Joy Mogensen, Member of Parliament Pelle Dragsted, and party leaders Pernille Skipper and Søren Pape. In addition, religious leaders including Bent Melchior, Naveed Baig, and Sørine Gotfredsen took part in the debate.

Museum director Jane Sandberg, college principal Jasper Gramkow, journalist Paula Larrain, author Anne Lise Marstrand, and former journalist Flemming Rose were cultural figures who made their mark on the events. We also invited leading physicist Holger Bech Nielsen, meteorologist Jesper Theilgaard, and CEPOS economist Martin Ågerup.

We are fighting for conversation salons to become an institution in local communities throughout Denmark. The dialogue coffee events were therefore spread across the Danish regions, where we visited Oure Højskole, Aarhus, Kolding, Copenhagen, and Herning. We invited local political organizations and other enthusiasts to ask questions along the way.

The panel participants had to introduce each other and share at least one thing they agreed on. Secretary General Özlem Cekic kept the debates on track with our five bridge-building principles, which you can see at the bottom of the page. We gave the audience voting cards to show if they had changed their minds during the debate. Finally, all debates ended with a cup of coffee for the participants and an invitation to continue the conversation with someone they disagree with. Learn more about the five events below.

Art and culture

At Oure Folk High School, Joy Mogensen (Minister of Culture and Church Affairs) and Jane Sandberg (museum director) discussed the future of cultural life. The moderators
were Jasper Gramkow (principal at Oure Folk High School) and Secretary General Özlem Cekic.

Security versus freedom

Pernille Skipper (Red-Green Alliance) and Søren Pape Poulsen (Conservative Party) came to Aarhus to debate security versus freedom. Özlem Cekic launched the debate with an interview with Flemming Rose (former journalist) about the publication of the Muhammad cartoons and its consequences for his freedom.

Climate

The climate debate took center stage in the 2019 election and has since been a focal point in Danish politics. Opinion leaders Pelle Dragsted (Enhedslisten) and Martin Ågerup (CEPOS) participated in a debate moderated by Jesper Theilgaard (climate expert) and Özlem Cekic at ENIGMA in Copenhagen.

God or science

In Herning, the panel of debaters consisted of Sørine Gotfredsen (parish priest), Naveed Baig (Imam), Bent Melchior (former Chief Rabbi) and Holger Bech Nielsen (physicist). Özlem Cekic moderated a weighty debate on the roles played by God and science in a democratic society.

Danishness

What does it mean to be Danish? This question remains highly controversial in political discourse. In Kolding, we invited Paula Larrain (journalist), Anne Lise Marstrand (author), and Flemming Rose (former journalist) to discuss Danishness and whether international criticism of Denmark is justified.

Five Bridge-Building Principles

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Hit the ball and keep the tone

The more we disagree, the more important it is that we talk about the issue and not attack the person.

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All opinions are equally valid

As long as they do not incite violence. Allow room for disagreement – without demonizing your opponent.

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Make dilemmas visible

Nothing is black and white, and the world is complex. In order for us all to become wiser, it is important to acknowledge the dilemmas that exist.

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Listen to counterarguments

Without investigating motives or expressing opinions or viewpoints that the opponent has never expressed.

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Acknowledge doubts

Doubt is not a weakness. Allow room for nuance and admit when you are wrong or have changed your mind.

Thanks to our partners

The events would not have been possible without our helpful partners. So thank you very much for that! ENIGMA, Oure Højskole, Dokk1, Koldinghus, and Herning Kirke provided us with a roof over our heads in the cultural spaces where we meet in everyday life. Not least, we received a donation of organic coffee from NOR, where participants could write their contact details on the coffee bag and pass it on to a neighbor with whom they wanted to continue the dialogue.

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